Values-driven CLAM blueprint

Values-driven CLAM blueprint that works for any group of decent, like-minded people, without being salesy.

Step 1: Observe & Listen

  • Join the group and watch conversations for a few days.

  • Identify members who are thoughtful, active, and respectful.

  • Avoid immediately posting or adding people — first, understand the group culture and tone.

Step 2: Comment (C)

  • Add meaningful, value-driven comments on posts.

    • Encourage others, share insights, or ask thoughtful questions.

    • Example: “I love your point on [topic] — I’ve noticed the same when trying [personal growth/action example].”

  • Focus only on connection and value, not business or products.

Step 3: Like (L)

  • Like posts and comments of people you genuinely resonate with.

  • This signals interest and alignment without being pushy.

Step 4: Add (A)

  • After some interactions (a few thoughtful comments or exchanges), send a friend request.

  • Include a personal note referencing the shared discussion:

    • Example: “Hi [Name], I really enjoyed your thoughts on [topic] — would love to connect with someone who thinks similarly.”

Step 5: Message (M)

  • Only message once trust and familiarity is established.

  • Focus on relationship-building, not selling.

  • Sample first message:

    • “Hi [Name], I saw your comment in [group] about [topic]. I also focus a lot on growth and improvement in [area] — thought it’d be great to connect and exchange ideas.”

  • Let the conversation develop naturally before mentioning anything you offer.

Step 6: Invite or Share Strategically

  • Only after building trust can you invite them to your group or resource.

  • Position it as sharing something helpful, not selling:

    • Example: “I’ve created a small space for people focused on growth, health, and freedom — would love to have you join if it resonates.”

Key Principles

  1. Relationship first, opportunity second.

  2. Be authentic — only connect with people you genuinely resonate with.

  3. Avoid spamming or pitching in the main group.

  4. Consistency over speed — 5–10 quality connections beat 50 shallow ones.

Iready-to-use first-message template pack for CLAM. These are crafted to feel natural, relationship-focused, and non-salesy. You can tweak them for each person.

Template 1: Connection Through Shared Interest

"Hi [Name], I saw your comment in [Group] about [Topic]. I’ve been exploring similar ideas and thought it’d be great to connect with someone who thinks similarly!"

Template 2: Appreciation & Engagement

"Hey [Name], I really liked your insight on [Topic] in [Group]. I appreciate connecting with people who are focused on growth and improvement — would love to stay in touch!"

Template 3: Curiosity + Personal Growth Angle

"Hi [Name], your post/comment on [Topic] really caught my attention. I’m always looking to learn from thoughtful people — would be great to connect and exchange ideas."

Template 4: Value-Sharing Approach

"Hey [Name], I enjoyed your post in [Group]. I recently came across [Article/Tip/Insight] related to [Topic] and thought you might find it interesting. Would love to connect!"

Template 5: Friendly & Open-Ended

"Hi [Name], I noticed your comment in [Group] about [Topic]. I enjoy meeting people who care about growth and meaningful discussion — what’s one thing you’re focusing on improving right now?"

💡 Tips for Using These Templates:

  1. Always personalize — reference their comment or post specifically.

  2. Keep the tone friendly, curious, and authentic.

  3. Avoid mentioning your business in the first message. Focus on building rapport.

  4. Once trust is established, invite them to your group/resource naturally.

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